I’ve had a few emails from readers asking for “the real deal” about the full-time travel lifestyle. They’re afraid that I – and other travel bloggers – tend to candy-coat the experience, and people want the dirt.
I have a funny way of turning a bad experience into a good one, so it stands to reason that my posts on the unsavoury side of full-time travel aren’t so easily located.
Never fear! I’m giving it to you both barrels today. So sit down, read on, and get depressed.
Here’s all the crappy stuff that has happened to me in my 8 years of full-time travel:
Romance Gone Wrong
I embarked on my full-time travels with a partner. We lasted a few years, but ended up breaking up in Australia (2010). Here’s what happened, along with some observations on how travel can be hard on a relationship:
Then, in New Zealand (2011), I sparked up a romance with a fellow dubbed my “Swedish Squeeze” (but commingling travel agendas wasn’t so easy):
…and he “squeezed” somebody else while I wasn’t looking:
A new addition to this roundup as of February 2014: Yet another icky breakup on the road:
This is a new category added since originally publishing this piece, where I was robbed – by a house-guest; a saga indeed:
And in 2014, my purse was stolen in Cusco:
Hospital Visits, Illness
It all started in Hawaii (2008) when my partner (at the time) dropped a 5-gallon glass jar onto his toe. He thought the hospital was a good first line of defence.
His hospital adventures were far from over though; a few months later he spent a week in a Thai hospital fighting for his life with Dengue fever. Here’s my account of a wee breakdown I had while picking up the slack:
This wasn’t my only kick at the can with dengue fever….I had it myself (and by myself) in Grenada in 2011:
Oh yes, and I almost forgot – I got a neurological disease in Hawaii (2008):
…if you keep scrolling, my most dramatic hospital experience warrants a heading of its own…
Oh yes, I’ve had my share of encounters with natural disasters too.
The first was a dangerously close proximity to Cyclone Nargis (2008) which obliterated Burma while I was 100kms away in Thailand. I turned this into a good news story by launching an international fundraising campaign to help the victims.
And then, less than a year later in 2009, I was stuck smack dab in the middle of Australia’s worst-ever natural disaster, the Victorian Bushfires. The diary entry I kept that day was archived by the National Library of Australia as “a piece of history”:
I carried on the daily diary for 18 days; you can catch up on all the drama here:
As if all that wasn’t enough, in New Zealand (2011), I got hit with two cyclones one atop the other, which stranded me (and others) in the place we were staying, and also cut off the whole peninsula from the rest of the North Island.
The Life-Changing Accident
In early 2013, I faced my biggest challenge in all my travels thus far; my partner (at the time) and I were in a near-fatal head-on collision (we were on our scooter, and were hit by a car):
Which led to much pontificating while in the throes of purgatory while healing, and then trying to sort out legal and insurance issues (which are ongoing):
And feelings of “missing the boat” and losing traction in the travel blogging industry as a result:
Eventually, almost two years later, after breaking up with my partner and other difficult events that in one way or another are related to the accident, I had to sign off on ever getting insurance compensation:
Encounters with Creepy Critters
In my first two weeks of volunteering in Hawaii (2007), I was nibbled on by centipedes – twice. While sleeping. In bed.
Sleep didn’t come easily after that.
…and the second attack a week later:
Years later in Australia (2010), once I finally learned to sleep soundly again, I got 37 spider bites…while I slept:
And again in Grenada (2011), I got devoured by icky bugs…and had some sort of centipede omen dropped at my doorstep on my first night there:
Travel Fatigue, Loneliness, etc
Here are some of the more universal issues I’ve grappled with on the road, not the least of which are work-life-travel balance problems in trying to make my full-time travels financially sustainable:
My first pangs of “homesickness”, in 2008:
And hitting a wall after traveling at too quick a pace for too long (2011):
The trials and tribulations of traveling solo and being alone:
Trying to decide on my next travel move (2011):
In 2012 shortly after arriving in Switzerland for a summer of house-sitting, a number of icky issues converged to truly formulate a crappy few days:
And some of the finer details you need to pay attention to when adopting a life of full-time travel:
It’s Not All Bad!
If you’re still reading this and haven’t stabbed yourself yet or raced out and applied for the next day job you can find as an alternative to traveling, then you realize that sh*t happens. Many of these emotional and logistical problems could have happened anywhere, irregardless of my full-time traveling lifestyle.
You’ll also see that in most of the articles featured here, I manage to find a silver lining to the situation.
Heck – some of life’s greatest adventures are MIS-adventures. Our high moments wouldn’t be nearly as amazing without the context and perspective of a few low moments mixed in for good measure.
So get out there, and create some mis-adventures of your own!
Editor’s Note: Ironically, when I opened this post to upload it to my site, 2/3 of it was missing….the result of some sort of glitch, resulting in the loss of 2+ hours of work, which I had to re-do from scratch (and faulty memory). I guess the karma gods decided to help me REALLY understand yet another aspect of having a “bad day”!
Bring it on. This version is better anyway.